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Excuses, excuses by Ramen27 Excuses, excuses by Ramen27
Sympathizers for pedophiles (among other groups) seem to be hiding behind weak and desperate excuses, like "you can't help who you have sexual feelings toward."

OH RLY?
Someone help me, I'm drowning in all this bullshit!

As someone who experiences sexual thoughts myself, I know. :XD:
For example, if I see a cute guy at the store, or in a movie, I don't think to myself "he's hot, I wonder what he looks like naked?" or fantasize about him sexually, because I am not single. I have standards, and I control where my thoughts go. (Not to say that my standards are everyone's standards, but this is just an example.) The point is, you CAN control your thoughts and feelings, I don't give a shit what these pedophile sympathizers say. I choose not to be a slave or a victim to thoughts. It's called goddamn self-control. Granted, no one is perfect or without mistakes, but the point is actually trying.

However, when you allow yourself to sink into the depravity of the darkest places in your mind, you become more and more desensitized to it, over time something you used to avoid suddenly isn't so bad. Watching child porn and allowing these thoughts to propagate in your mind is like holding a steak over a hungry dog. People think they can control their physical urges, saying, "it's ok to have these thoughts, as long as I don't act on them!" but eventually their depravity consumes them. (Why do you think most child molesters and CP addicts are old?) It's a tragedy. I strongly urge anyone who has commonly occurring thoughts of any illegal and dangerous sexual activity to seek support. If for nothing else, so one day you don't land yourself in jail.

"but it's none of your bizness!"
Yet another weak and desperate excuse. When it's posted on public domain, it's everyone's business. And since when is it a crime to be concerned about people? I didn't make this stamp to judge people, I made it to warn people. If you don't like it, ignore it and go about your merry way. See where your life takes you.
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SierraFaith Featured By Owner Jul 12, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
Yes ;w;/
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SadistSkunk Featured By Owner Jul 8, 2015  Professional Digital Artist
Stamp Requests - Pro loli/shota by SadistSkunk  
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JazzChinchilla Featured By Owner Jun 29, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
you can but would you rather be happy or have your lover be approved
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Commander-Dominic Featured By Owner Jun 27, 2015
So true.
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TheLondonJamJar Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
The life guard might have trouble
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Lycanamu Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2015  Student General Artist
And By what comes to controlling any feelings... It's true as well. Okay, the reactions that cause a feeling can't be controlled, but we can control the feeling itself by either strenghtening by thoughts or by not giving it much attention and just letting it go away.
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Lycanamu Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2015  Student General Artist
Exactly.

Plenty of ordinary people might suddenly notice having sexual thoughts about something that is wrong, but instead of going to fap to some sick porn, these people reject those thoughts and don't go into them. For some, the experienced desires can be hard, but if they've got ANY morals left, they WILL NOT go to watch child porn (it's wrong and disgusting because actual children become victims) or act upon them (again, actual children would become victims).

This is why I support theraphy for people who experience pedophilic or zoophilic thoughts and want to get rid of them. They could just call a theraphist that they're worried about what's going on in their head so that they could talk about it and get help in getting rid of those thoughts.

A good person is concerned and scared if this kind of thoughts start crossing their mind. Self-control alone can save them, but if they need more help to cope with their experience, it would be good that they could seek help. Fast.

A bad person will use these thoughts as an excuse to commit horrible crimes and will even blame the the victim.
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nightengale1028 Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2015
.....*starts to hum snickering*

www.youtube.com/watch?v=IiaO9r… 
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Carmine777 Featured By Owner May 26, 2015  Hobbyist Photographer
Fuck YEAH!!!!!

Words I can live by.
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NatReksio Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
If we can decide on that, go and become attracted to the same sex. Can't? I wonder why.
Get over yourself
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AsahiGirl Featured By Owner Jun 21, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
If we could do that, then I can decide whether I'm hungry or not. I would choose to be hungry so I can eat more ice cream.
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Carmine777 Featured By Owner Edited May 30, 2015  Hobbyist Photographer
And I have the right to comment on yours.
It's also not my fault when I stumble upon it while I was briefly browsing the comment section.
I quote: "Get over yourself."

Besides, the stamp has a good message. Too bad you are overwhelmed by your own feelings to hate it.
Take a chill pill. Have some self-control.
And deal with it.
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TheiCarlyAngel Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2015  Student Artist
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Carmine777 Featured By Owner May 26, 2015  Hobbyist Photographer
If you don't like it, ignore it and go about your merry way.
See where your life takes you.

Why do you even look at the stamp in the first place? I wonder why.
Get over yourself.
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NatReksio Featured By Owner May 30, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I have the right to comment on this.
It's also not my fault when I stumble upon it while browsing through stamps.
I quote: "Get over yourself."
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DragonSlayers-Mate Featured By Owner Feb 20, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
no but a gay person cant wake up on day and say they love women sexually/romantically, nor can a lesbian say that about guys, asexuals about any gender etc. 
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Lycanamu Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2015  Student General Artist
This stamp IS NOT about gay people. Two consenting adults desiring each other and having sex is perfectly okay.

This stamp is about something like pedophilia or zoophilia, which are more like disorders in sexual arousal etc. Acting upon pedohpilia or zoophilia is wrong, because a child or an animal is completely helpless and not able to give consent. It's always cruel, damaging and flat-out molestation.
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DragonSlayers-Mate Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
yes that i can agree with but this person has also proven  to be a homophobe soooo eh. 
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Lycanamu Featured By Owner Jun 7, 2015  Student General Artist
They have? Oh, I didn't know... :/ Well that's sad, because otherwise this stamp would even make sense. ):
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Fun-dragoness Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2015
Oh I thought you meant things like sadness, sexual preference, anger, happiness, etc.
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TGOM Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
Oh, I thought it was about crying or raging.
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HitlerKiller66 Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Pedophilia is a very forgivable thing. Until someone of them won't rape a child (or to have sex under the agreement of both sides (pedophil and the child)), pedophiles can control their feelings.
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AsahiGirl Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
:icontheplz::iconmoreplz::iconyouplz::iconknowplz:
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Arkreon Featured By Owner May 22, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
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problematicfave Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
at first i thought it was gonna be about pms or some other dumb bullshit, but i'm glad it's about pedophilia (or zoophilia, might i add). things that are actually worth getting angry about.
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fluffysensation Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2014  Hobbyist
when it comes to pedophilia, feelings are excusable, however actions are not. thats just my opinion though. 
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HitlerKiller66 Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2015  Student Digital Artist
I agree!
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Greystar2000 Featured By Owner Jan 6, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I agree. :nod:
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DudeWheresMyLion Featured By Owner Oct 29, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I have to agree, a lot of feelings can be controlled. 

But emotions are hard to fight off. Anger and sadness being the main struggles I have. I tend to get pretty emotional to the point where sadness and anger mix into yelling at others to leave you alone while you're crying. It's confusing. 

Sexual thoughts? None here. I have no interest xD and as for falling in love (what a silly term) sure, you may "like" someone, but you can ignore that feeling and make yourself not like the person anymore. I've done it. Few years back I "liked" this guy, but he was a smoker, had a kid (but no custody over it) and got into nasty crap. After a month I made myself loose interest in him because his lifestyle wasn't good, to me at least and it was crap I didn't want part of. 
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Randamu-Chan Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Thumbs Up 
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condy-candy Featured By Owner Aug 25, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
No honestly I don't think this is true. Did I ask myself, hey! Can I be unreasonably sad today? No. But it happens. Did I ask myself hey! Can I get a huge ass crush on this person for no reason? No. But it happens. Did I ask myself hey! Can I get flustered over asking the store clerk where the kitchen section is? No. But it happens.
And yes, if you try very hard and work with yourself and probably a professional as well you can help yourself overcome, or at least learn to harness certain qualities of your emotional stability. But it is not easily done.
I'd also like to remind you that some people have mental diseases such as depression or bipolar disorder and these are not things that they can help. And these diseases do not care if the victim has a good education or not, has a functional family or not, has a good supply of food and money or not, and so on. It is a DISEASE. These things sometimes don't even have a reason for occurring. They just do. They're like a cold but they don't affect you in the same places. It's not a thing that you can help. And you can ease it with some pills but it's not fully under you control.
And I'm not claiming that I have any of these disorders either because that would be self-diagnosing and that would be fairly unfair and also kinda stupid. But I want you to get that emotions are not entirely controllable. You can control your actions that sprout from them but you cannot control the emotions themselves.
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condy-candy Featured By Owner Aug 25, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
However I do have to agree with the point you make in the description that yes you can control the actions you make. But please realize that the words in the stamp don't quite say the same
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shii-butts Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't think you can control your feelings, because they are FEELINGS, and you don't choose how you feel about something or someone. However, you can control your ACTIONS, whether you act on those feelings or not.
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PokeSmosher365 Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2014  Student General Artist
I wish you could also choose whether you're hungry or not, just like you can control your feelings. Then, I could choose to be hungry so I could eat more ice cream.
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Just-Call-Me-J Featured By Owner Jul 30, 2014  Hobbyist
YES. You CAN control your feelings. It's called saying no to them.
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IxCANxHAZxCOOKIE Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
With the context described, wouldn't it really be more about repressing an urge than controlling the feeling itself?
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Anonymous--Art Featured By Owner Jun 30, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
guys what's on the stamp is actually about like pedophiles and stuff not anxiety and stuff
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adrianarosabell Featured By Owner Jun 5, 2014
yeah you're right I do it every time cause feelings can disrupt my work  so I get rid of them temporarily
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SuperSaiyanBunny Featured By Owner May 16, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes, people in the comments, you CAN control your thoughts, but you have to TRY! (WOAH! SHOCKER!!!) I self harmed, had depression, suicidal thoughts, anorexia, and bulimia (YES, I HAD A BOMBARDMENT OF NEGATIVE THOUGHTS I OVERCAME! YOU CAN TOO!). I knew I needed to change my life so I started with the most important thing, my outlook on life! When a negative thought came, I did not give in! I reminded myself everyday of my worth! At first, I couldn't control the thoughts. They came as they did, but reacting positively stopped me from caving in to their demands. After two years, I no longer have those thoughts and can say I live a happy, healthy life. You can only suppress your thoughts if you are willing to work for it. It's not that you can't suppress those thoughts, it's that you choose not to. 
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fuckshiru Featured By Owner May 5, 2014   Digital Artist
Exactly! I don't give two shits if you're stressed out. You can't raise your voice at anyone for no reason.
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Killuanatsume Featured By Owner Apr 30, 2014
And tell how am I suppose to control generalized anxiety disorder? Hum? Tell me please.
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KINGRIEVOUS Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Same way I control my PTSD, with willpower.
Or take a deep breath..That helps, my best friend has an anxiety disorder.
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Killuanatsume Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014
Yeah, but that easier said than done.
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KINGRIEVOUS Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Well said.
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Killuanatsume Featured By Owner Jun 11, 2014
thanks
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KINGRIEVOUS Featured By Owner Jun 12, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Good luck in life, :D (Big Grin) 
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Killuanatsume Featured By Owner Jun 12, 2014
Thanks. You too :)
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Gumshallgirl Featured By Owner Apr 16, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
Pedophilia is a real mental disease that is caused by hypersexuality at a young age. It can be treated, and even cured through chemical castration. Too many people with this condition don't know that they can be helped, and that is disappointing. 
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Picollinno Featured By Owner Apr 15, 2014
You can control any type of feeling, not only those kind.
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